Is first time is painfull for a boy of 26 year old?

intercouse for first time is painfull for a boy of 26 year old i have idea about this as i heard it is very painfull please let me know and when i get ual feeling i used to mastubation will it help me out my feeling untill now i had not had with any one how will i face for first time is their any way i can enjoy wth partner r watching video alway think all my life is wasted without having please give me correct guideance in my problems thank u